Our
stories—with both their past and ongoing heartaches, sins, rebellions and joys—are
beautiful testimonies of God’s redeeming love and boundless grace towards
us. Every aspect of our testimony, from
our prodigal son-like recklessness to humble repentance, contributes to our
story. Both the tragedies and triumphs are
knit together in such a manner that they cannot and should not be separated—victories
do not bring joy without the struggle that precedes them, and satisfying and
beautiful rest is not seen as such apart from contrasting trials. And so you
cannot have the one without the other—tragedy and triumph go hand-in-hand.
When
it comes to my testimony, I confess that at times I prefer to “leave out” some details,
especially when it relates to my own shortcomings. Yet God has faithfully worked
on me with His divine brush, so why do I attempt to paint a different picture
of my life? At times I’m ashamed of what
I did and who I was—ashamed that I lived as I did and didn’t have my life more
“together”. In other instances, my
pride influences what I share. If
something makes me look better, I’ll share it.
If it cuts to the root of my sinful heart, however, it’s conveniently
left out. In such instances, my shame
and pride display both arrogance and a resistance to share my own struggles.
Maybe
we wish our testimony was somehow different. Perhaps we think to ourselves:
If only I hadn’t been so stubborn in my sin…
If only I would have repented sooner…
If only I would have surrendered
myself to Christ before this or that happened...
If only I didn’t backslide…
Or maybe upon hearing the testimony of another, we hesitate
to share ours, thinking:
How on earth am I supposed to follow on the heels of that testimony? Compared
to that story, mine isn’t that profound.
I wish I had a more radical, compelling story. Mine pales in comparison…
Or maybe we even feel:
Wow, their “sinful living” was nothing compared to the darkness I
embraced. They’ve hardly done anything
wrong. I feel so dirty compared to
them. Maybe I shouldn’t share my full
story. They’ll either be offended or
write me off if they know the full extent of who I once was…who I am…
I
think Satan hurls these lies against us in the hopes of keeping us from sharing
our testimonies. Why? I believe that in
causing us to feel self-conscious or insecure about our story, the evil one
hopes to turn our focus inward. Our
story, however, isn’t really ours —it’s God’s.
And that is precisely why we should share it and exactly why Satan will utilize
all his power to try and keep us quiet.
The
reality of the matter, however, is that just because we each possess a
different story does not mean that one testimony is somehow “better” than the
next. In fact, the uniqueness of our
testimonies is beautiful because God specifically customizes His work in each
one of us. The end goal—our salvation and
sanctification and His glorification—is the same for all, but the means by
which we are drawn to Him and the processes by which He works in our lives are
hand-tailored to each one of us. We are not cookie-cutouts. Different does not mean better, and we must
guard ourselves against falling prey to such lies. We need all sorts of testimonies, for they
remind us that no one is beyond the reach of God’s grace or the need of God’s
grace.
So
yes, sharing our stories is important.
It encourages our hearts and the hearts of those around us in several
ways. First, sharing our testimony
compels us to remember all that God has brought to pass in our life. Personally, I am so prone to
forgetting—forgetting how lost I was in my sin, the painful trials I struggled
through, and God’s faithfulness in the midst of all. I forget who I am and Whose I am. When I share my story, however, I am quickly
reminded I am more underserving and sinful than I ever dared think, but as
God’s precious daughter I am more loved and accepted than I ever dared
hope. Sharing our story is thus the
means by which we are reminded of who we are, but more importantly, Whose we
are and who God is. Secondly, sharing our
story lifts our hearts and emboldens us as we are reminded of the power of the
One we serve. When we share our stories,
we are reminded that the Holy Spirit works in profound ways and is able to
accomplish beyond all we could ever ask or imagine. So we can take heart, knowing that God is for
us and fights on our behalf. Thirdly, I
think God is pleased and glorified when we share our stories with others. If we share our stories in a truly honest and
humble manner, the focus in the end should not be on us. While it may appear as though we own our
story, the reality of the matter is that Christ’s work in our lives should
reflect God’s glory and place the spotlight on Him. We see that God reaches all sorts of people, softening
the hardest of hearts and drawing even religious churchgoers into personal
relationship with Himself. It is God who fiercely yet tenderly woos us in. We cannot take credit for this.
Along
with this, the question may arise as to whether or not we should care what
others think of us as we share our stories. Yes and no. Yes, we should care in the sense that we bear
the name of Christ and are thus responsible for how we represent Him. The
Gospel is offensive enough to many unbelievers—we ourselves should not be
offensive. There is also a sense,
however, in which we should not care what others think. When we share our stories, the emphasis
should not be on our excellency, wisdom, or honor. If people approve of us, it should be because
they see and love and rejoice in Christ’s work in our lives. In other words, they approve of us not
because of what we have done, but because of what Christ has done in us and
through us on our behalf. There may be
some, however, who upon hearing our stories reject us. While no one whishes to be resisted or
condemned, our identity does not rest on the opinions of others. We should not attempt to change who we are or
alter the theme of our stories simply to avoid rejection or win the approval of
others. I love what John Piper stated in
a sermon on Christian identity and Christian destiny:
“[…]
as a Christian you cannot talk about your identity without talking about the
action of God on you, the relationship of God with you, and the purpose of God
for you. The biblical understanding of human self-identity is radically
God-centered…[God] has given us our identity in order that his identity might
be proclaimed through us. God made us who we are so we could make known who he
is. Our identity is for the sake of making known his identity. The meaning of
our identity is that the excellency of God be seen in us.”
As
the other day was Christmas, my stepdad sat and read John 1:1-18 to the
family. Prior to yesterday, I had
typically overlooked John’s role in this passage and instead focused on Christ,
who is referred to as both the life and light of men. The other night, however, several things
struck me regarding John. We read:
“There was a
man sent from God, whose name was John. He came as a witness, to bear witness about the light, that all
might believe through him. He was not the light, but came to bear witness about
the light.”
First,
what struck me is that John was a witness.
In other words, John’s role was to give testimony to others of who Christ was. Secondly, when I had previously read “that all might believe through him”, I had always assumed that
“him” referred to the “light”, or Christ.
I didn’t realize, however, that “him” refers to John—Christ’s
witness. What I find fascinating is that
while it is belief in Christ that saves, most people come to see and believe in
Christ through the testimony of others.
John was a witness proclaiming Christ
such that others were drawn to faith through his testimony. We also read that “[Christ] was in the world, and the world
was made through him, yet the world did not know him. He came to his own, and his
own people did not receive him.” It seems then that witnesses
are important exactly because the world is hostile to Christ and the
Gospel. We ourselves are not the light,
but we are responsible for reflecting and radiating that Light to a dark
world. Because of this, we cannot neglect
our role since we are one of God’s means for drawing His children to Himself.
So
what does all of this mean? Alone, you
and I may be only one voice, but together we can live and proclaim God’s work
in our lives in such a way that brings glory to Him. As we are filled with God’s Spirit, our
hearts should overflow with thankfulness for His merciful and gracious work in
our lives and an eagerness to share what He has done. Our words and actions and attitudes should
proclaim and display the goodness of God—in the way we speak and live, we
should portray Christ in such a manner that others are drawn to Him. So out of our love for God and others, let us
rejoice and boldly share who we are, Whose we are, who God is, and the glorious
ways He is at work in our lives.
